The Moment
It does not matter that you’ve failed while attempting something; only that you tried. The outcome should not concern you, it’s the journey that matters. Even for a warrior, it is not will you live or die, but if you decide to BE, what you decide to DO.
Flow
Just as a molecule of water cannot move in the opposite direction of the flow; we cannot escape our environment, our circumstances. If you face the direction you are heading, you can prepare yourself for what is to come. Once you understand the limits of your existence, only then can you accept them and move on. This is true freedom.